first you have to control your self. It is better than blow yourself.
calm down and ask her to discuss the problem with cold headed, whether it is bad or good problem.
after she gets more calm down and and the discussion started. find the reason?? why she get mad with you. in some cases woman choose to make a fight with her couple to measure a commitment and heart of a man. aside from it maybe her emotion is causes by menstruation. we know in this phase women usually be more sensitive. but whatever things that makes her mad behind all of her reason , her feelings must be hurt and she must be feel frustrated somehow.
soften your sound and ask her to tell all. but if her sound get more higher or seems getting more mad with you. said a words to calm her again. such as "I understand your feelings , but it is hard for me to solve it if you keep screaming". to make it more better use your contact eyes to show her that you heard her.
for the problem solving we know that man use more logic and fact to solve problem.but right now if you insist her with your opinion, she will get mad again.
you have to ask her opinion than combine it with your opinion. if you able to solve the problem. you will get positive result . one of any ways that i often try is by kiss her lips . see the movement if she didn't enjoyed or refused it it means she still get mad at you.
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